Psychic Callers Anonymous

TaurusGem wrote:

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I think one of the dangers is, if you are told someone is your future husband, does it change how you treat him? Do you become confident and focused on that "happy ever after" that you don't then act in the present like you would normally? Do you let things go that you other wise wouldn't, or shouldn't? 

Does the act of knowing, change your actions, even in a subtle way, which then...changes the outcome?

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 Yes, what "they" tell you can change how you behave.  They can also stop you from Really living your life.  No one really knows your future.  You need to live.  You cannot, cannot rely on what they tell you, for more often than not, it does NOT happen.  I am here to tell you I called for 4 different relationships, and NONE panned out like they said.  Not one.  And it wasn't anything I did.  They chose otherwise.  When someone breaks up with you, it's for a reason.  If someone doesn't call you, it is because they don't want to.  It is not work, or anything else.  It is only because they do not want to.  A psychin will tell you otherwise and keep you hanging on to something that is not there. 

the problem here that we are all facing is puttino our trust in someone on the phone who does not know ****.  It is not what you're doing that is "preventing" anything, it is because it's not gonna happen.  We have to stop listening to psychics..  See the reality.  

Well first off, it's because they plant that seed of hope.  When you love someone, and have broken up, and you are in your midst of pain.....it is so easy to fall into the thought of "hey, it's gonna happen". Especially if you have 10 picking up crazy crap, and telling you the same thing.   It is HARD to let go of that "seed of hope" they planted.  And you are correct, it is hard to listen to your gut when you're hurting.  I read something like "lies are easy to believe when your heart is hungry".  That applies to lies guys tell you as well as psychics.

 For me it seems I DO believe the psychicd at first when I am hurting....but for me, as time goes on and nothing happens, I can hear my own intuition.  Even this time, nothing has really happened, no contact as they said, or events or whatever....and I can kinda see it for what it is/was, but in the back of my mind, I'm like "what if"..... Which is crazy stupid, as nothing has ever panned out before for me, even silly stupid stuff has never happened.  But "what if" lol.