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IAMenough
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I had a therapy appointment last week and she knows about my psychic addiction. But she also knows how I hang on to men that I've felt a strong connection to and then they leave.  The last 3 men for me have been short term where I attach on to them emotionally after they leave, I don't let go and then the cycle of calling begins.  She pointed something out to me.  FEAR.  She asked me if it's possible I have fear that I will never have that connection with anyone again therefore I can't let go.  I've been thinking about that a lot since.  It's definitely a part of why I call and don't let go. 



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IAMenough wrote:

I had a therapy appointment last week and she knows about my psychic addiction. But she also knows how I hang on to men that I've felt a strong connection to and then they leave.  The last 3 men for me have been short term where I attach on to them emotionally after they leave, I don't let go and then the cycle of calling begins.  She pointed something out to me.  FEAR.  She asked me if it's possible I have fear that I will never have that connection with anyone again therefore I can't let go.  I've been thinking about that a lot since.  It's definitely a part of why I call and don't let go. 

 OMG...you hit the nail on the heat with this.... While I have dated a few guys whom I never called about...the last guy, I was on and off for two years, who I felt something for....my thinking after a few months now, is it only because I feel like when is it gonna happen for me?  Will there be someone else I feel so much for?  Why when I feel so much and they also protray to, well why don't they!!!!! Lol



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But the problem is, we don't actually "feel" the fear. It's a subconscious fear. At least for me that's how it is.

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THIS. I think maybe I have this subconscious fear too. But for me, maybe it's also about the fear that secretly, I am unlovable. So when a guy rejects me I can't just let it be because it threatens my sense that I am a lovable person, and will find someone some day, and so on. Because with the guys things are "fine" with, I don't call. If I feel secure, etc, I'm not calling to find out what's going on.

I think I also don't want to have to believe I was wrong about someone, I don't want to think I was fooled because nowhere leading up to it did my intuition go "hey lady, this dude is full of crap and gonna 180 on you". It takes me 100% by surprise, every single time.

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Omg that's how I feel as well. When I feel a strong connection and then they don't and bail, I immediately start feeling it's something about me or what does the new girl have that I don't. When in reality, they just didn't feel it for whatever reason. Just like I haven't felt it with other men and they did me. I've been reading the power within you by Louise Hay and I need to finish it. It's really good. But instead of working that book, I'm thinking, obsessing and calling psychica. That's pretty messed up!!! Lol

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